I wrote about sexual archetypes recently and it inspired me to touch in on the queen. The queen is a powerful archetype for many women in today’s world because she takes NO SHIT.
For me, connecting to my inner queen meant coming into deep relationship with my pelvic bowl and specifically…my uterus. In many healing systems, the uterus / prostate is the center of wisdom & intuition in the body. (Here I am trying on my queen self).
She is the ultimate power! (My uterus is a she, I always encourage clients to find the personality that suits your uterus the most.) She is my intuition. She has steered me into the most amazing life once I learned how to listen and respect her. It was a real journey and still is. There were times when I wanted to give up because the emotional pain that had to release from this space in my body was so intense before I could feel pleasure here. There were also the most satisfying moments like when I got the image of my uterus strutting her stuff as Chiquita Banana and having cervix / uterine orgasms (the ultimate experience that I will never forget). The images people receive of their uterine network in metaphor are priceless.
In the holistic pelvic world, the uterus and ovaries (and all the parts of the body really but ESPECIALLY these areas) have a personality. They have their own voice. EVERY single time, when we tune into these spaces in our body with deep listening and curious love, we get a response. Every time!
Once I connected to my inner Queen, everything changed. My lifestyle, my relationships, sex on all levels, boundaries, and more. I felt clear, like laser clear about who & what I allowed into my life and the purpose it all serves. Most simply put, anything that wasn’t serving me fully fell out of my life.
Want to tap into your Queen energy?
Begin here. I always invite a lot of curiosity and compassion for yourself here:
– place your hands on your lower belly, with your fingers touching your pubic bone and your thumbs upward underneath your belly button. Let your touch be caring, gentle, and present
– imagine your uterus sitting there right in the center of your pelvic bowl. Say hello, how is she (or your own name) feeling? What is happening?
– what message is there for you? what does your Queen tell you about the questions you have about your life and choices?
– as you build your presence in your pelvic bowl, you may revisit with this space frequently and this is the path of beginning to live a life that is connected to your inner wisdom. Living from your center instead of living from the head
** people who have had their uterine system removed can still do this practice! Even if the organ has been removed from the body or the menstrual cycle has ceased, there is an energetic power center here.
Want to explore with me? I have spaces opening up periodically in my programs, write to me with interest, leave your comments here, I love hearing from you! With love, Alicia